Creatures ! you can’t deny you can’t live without kinds of people, cultures, ways, rules !
Some are strict..some are easygoing..some are religious..some are not.. Some are planning far ahead .. some are living for the moment ! Some are diplomats, yet trustworthy ! ..some are just there to make you fail without having any clue !! Sometimes you just feel like you wanna breakaway .. go out of this earth and head to venus or Mars and leaving it all ! Sometimes you find someone who can fall for you .. a real love to lift you up and guide you on your way !! .. Sometimes you find your own worest enemy who has nothing in mind but to destroy you and break you apart !
sOme swear they will be forever beside you ..but time proves otherwise ! some get bored and some find something new !
you are left alone with no one with you ! .. may be out of the blue ..someone appears to you..giving you a hand..to fight with you all the way till you are through !
an angel sent from up above to be with you …!
But don’t rely that this will stay till you kiss life goodbye..the one and only one will care for you !
People who think you are special for them are not that common and even if they exist..their level of caring about you varies ! and even these people sometimes just get bored or just have something new in their life and you start taking the 2nd priority in their life !
Friday, May 25, 2007
People ..
Remember ! there's always tomorrow !
Everything in life changes you in some way !even the small things !if you don't accept these changes..then you don't accept yourself !for through these changes brings you new and greater things to you..making you wiser as time progresses !to avoid these changes is a loSs !!you Only live your life once sO don't waste a minute of it avoidig thingss !let them come to you and learn from them..THERE'S ALWAYS TOMORROW!!
Friendship, love and their terrific friendship !
As a matter of fact..friendship differs a bit from love...and at the same time they are closely related!!
As friendship comes when you find that person whom you can share with this give and take kinda relationship but this doesn’t mean to give so as to take in return! NoO! NoO! Nooo!!
You give here because you want to give..you give on a golden plate without waiting for anything in return!
Cause simply..if that person you gave is a real true friend he’ll give you back even more but this time it will be on a pearly plate!
Friendship knocks on your door when there’s this or that person who’s knocking to help..to stand by..to share all the good feelings and ease all the pain away..
That person who comes to say, i am here just for you..to be a good ear to listen whether what’s being said important or not !
See how wonderful friendship IS!!
See how wonderful it is when you find that person whom you can go...pour out the wholly whole of your heart like it’s not you who’s pouring! But your heart is the one who’s doing so! the one who felt that there’s another heart surrounding him with all his deepest care and love in a trial to ease this mystified heart and never let go unless drawing a smile in your heart before it on your face !
Wwah!! If I kept talking about friendship .. i won’t finish ever ! endless words to be said..not even words but entire feelings that are indescribable but just felt warm inside !
So as for love..Ooooh! sorry I mean Mr.love!!
Mr.love who’s always puzzling us..controlling our hearts...minds and feelings..
Perhaps love is the most wonderful thing you can ever feel in this life and perhaps it’s the worst ever!! How that gOes ! .. Yes Love is a great feeling that we are all in need to..but this great feeling doesn’t work properly unless we fully understand the meaning of love,the meaning of sacrifice and the meaning of friendship..
To share love with someone else is something marvelous..but the question here is why we share this love?
Is it because of an outwardly reason or an inwardly one ! you loved them for what they are or you just loved how they look like…!!
Let me illustrate a bit this mystery…
I mean is it because your heart just loved this person because it just felt like so..just apparently without any basal reasons !
Or is it because ..love here is based on an inner true feelings that you loved this person because you both are really overlapping together..sharing a wholeheartedly feelings..or because you both vitalize each others life!
Here I can say that this is the true love that works so proper for whatever it’s facing in this world…
Nnow..that we’ve talked about two wonderful kinda relationships..let’s see what’s this closely friendship between them then!
I… my self think that friendship is the first step towards a great love relationship cause simply ..your true friend is the one who loves you most..the one who cares for you most..the one whom you’ll find him your hotshot whenever you need to scoot Out!!!
I hope you liked the issue..hope you got all its meanings but just before summing up and saying goodbye..let me add One more thing about Mr.love..
=May be love is the right way to get a nice life..But tOo much love will ruin this life..so you have to keep your love down to keep your whole life ! =
Got it !! so just take care my friend ;)
Wishing you a life full of everlasting truthful friendships and everlastig beautiful Lo..loO..loveeee !
Love is Kind and Kindness is the extreme lOve !
Kindness has been always known as the merit that’s holding all the delicate and warm feelings..but unfortunately, lately there had been a quiddity saying that for a guy to be kind means that he’s a weak person and got a hesitated character and cannot take decisions by their own
So many times when it is said that a specific person is kind, then people get it on the opposite side of the good personality..they get it as this person is weak, feeble and so many other negative signs !!
But,kindness was never meant to be so and people who think this way aren’t at all understandable to the meaning of “a kind person”..but on the other hand we’ve gotta admit that the extreme kindness is not that good in all times so we’ve gotta make a mixture of kindness and mind so as to explode an equiponderant person and a balanced person at the end !
sO..kindness was never meant to be a sign of weakness…on the contrary, in so many times I consider it a sign of strength surrounded by a tender touch !
being tough had never been the extreme strength ..
so for those so sweet persons..thOse who’d got this peaceful character”Kindness”..keep it Uupp!!..keep your kindness ! don’t waver ever !and don’t listen to those who say that kindness is the extreme weakness
Dream a Dream !
To have somebody invited to your dream..probably this is somethig very pleasant and nice ! To be in somebody else's dream .. probably this is something also very nice and pleasant sometimes but to that person..not yourself!! because that particular person is the one that enjoys the dream not yoU!!when you hear about it and that person tells you i've dreamt of you last night..and it was such a beautiful and a sweet dream or it was this and that dream..then you probably think about it and say okay! that's nice but the nicest part is when you experience it yourself..yoU got your own dream and you invite whoever you want to this particular dream:)?!!can you invite somebody to the dream or people just barge in and get into your dream ! Ofcource they do this quite often..they barge in..this is why you dream of those unpleasant people million times..but sometime you dream of people that you want to dream of..because you've been thinking of them just before you go to bed and you just know that you've invited them to your dream or it's a voice that you've invited over..just like the sunset,it just rings a bell and comes to your sweet dreams...:)
lOsing !..
And for every one noWwww ! Have you ever thought how it’d be going like if you lost someone? And specially if this someone a person who’s dear to you..whom had really existed in your life for a coon’s age..a person whom it’ll be very hard for you even to imagine for a moment that you’ll lose him ..
But what is it??whyy??why do we lose people we love?!but it’s clearly known that losing do come when someone decides to give you up or you decide to give someone up and this comes when something just clicks on from inside..clicks on and you’ve lost confidence or faith in someone that it’ll be very hard for you to encore them again..
Or losing may come when you suddenly lose someone..when all of a sudden this someone dies.. but we’ve gotta accept it ..It’s a fated fate !
But whether we lost them this or that way..unfortunately we’ve lost them at the end !
Lastly .. treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more and more because you share it with sOmeone special ..special enough to spend your time with ! and remember always that time waits for nO oneeee ..!
DoOrs !!
BUT ...
when you have two doors that could be opened for you..and you don't know which leads to happiness and which one doesn't lead to it .. but it's sometimes gOod to do some change because change does help in getting things running and up and sO on through your heart and through your feelings and there's so much to risk .. and as a matter of fact if you think about it ..there isn't sO much to risk ! :))
DIFFERENT ..arn't we ?!
And while i was thinking to myself i found how a great grace God's granted us for creating us different characters and different personalities.. !!! that reminded me much of the pUzzle pieces when we just try to match them together..not only trying to put this piece to the other but it should be in its right place..and that resembles me much of us Humans !!..we got different mOods every now and then..
Sad mood!! sure we've all passed through such a mood before and we've found that someone who succeeded to absorb this sadness and vice versa..and also,we've been put in such a situation and tried to absorb that person's sadness
WHY is that ??! ..because we're just DIFFERENT ! ..maybe we've too many common things,but still gOt some differences....sOmetimes you accept what i don't accept and other times you refuse what i don't refuse ! and that hOw life goes on at the END ! THANKS GOD !
How Chance cOmes our way ..!
Take the most difficult challenges you're now facing..and turn it into the greatest opportunity to grow simply by changing how you see it ! Dead lines then become Turning points!!!how many times in your life have you faced a dead line?!..as a matter of fact i could ask some people how many times in your day you have met a dead end and how have you dealt with that dead end?!..did you just turn back or you tried to find a way out ! you may try to find a way out but it's a dead end because you went that way and you decided to walk all the way through...what would you do? turn back,quit,jump the hurdle,jump the fence...it sounds good to say "they're always jumping the obstacles" but it's also good that you think that you may return...quiting is not always the worst thing you can do in your life and quiting may be the sanest and safest thing that you could do in your life ..doing things..doing them to the better..trying to find the way out..trying to take a decision..and make up your mind..that's not an easy task and that's not an easy way to go about with..but it just happens that you reach a dead end..you try sometimes to jump the hurdle and you try sometimes to just quit..put yourself in a state of mind..what do you say to yourself...here's an opportunity for me to celebrate like never before..my own power..my own ability to get myself to do whatever is necessary!so what is necessary..is opportunity necessary?!.. is chance to be taken necessary? or life itself s
omething worth celebrating?...you go about your days and you face those obstacles and you just don't know should i jump or should i go back?!..Never let anyone decide for you because you see after a while that those people around are the ones that bring you under attack..the other ones with the stings and arrows shooting at you because you've taken this decision or that decision..they may say we will support but be sure not all of them will..very few will support your decision...so with obstacles and people we always try to attract people..always know to attract attractive people you must be attractive..powerful people you must be powerful..to attract comitted people .you must be commited instead of working on them...you go to work on yourself if you became you can attract and this is what happes..you're beautiful inside then you attract people that are beautiful inside !
Life is a big meSs ..!
goin through my diary and the good memories and then feels so angry from "time" ! but then i thought of it and realized that time has got no blame ..it just shows us the clear view of life as long as it's goin on .. it purifies who'd been truly there and who'd been faking under name of friendship and love ..
i feared pain until i realized it's necessary for growth ! i feared the past until i realized it could no longer hurt me ! .. and through my thoughts I realized that life is like a war ! Whether to be or not to be ! but in the end I found life is just full of stations .. and we’re just pausing in every station for a while !
hhhhhhh … and it’s better to be loved for what you are that to be loved for what you aren’t !
and either we are moving forward or backward ....... remember that life is a big mess ! no more no less it IS !
Try Try Try !
Inside everyone of us are some feelings.. it goes away sometimes and then they come back..
sometimes we cheer like the spring rOses..sometimes we get mad like a winter wind..and sometimes we become as dry as the autumn leaves ! ..
and there is a time when all the feelings are miXed up !! yOu get bored and confused with everything around you ..
yOu want to scream and say HELP! but no one answers because they are all like you confused !
But don't worry ! the time will cOme to know what you feel ! what you want and what you need ! .. but that time will cOme when you decide..work hard..think about it and you'll get a RESULT that will satisfy yOu at the end ! ..
TRY ! TRY ! TRY ! This is just the Beginning ;) !
